Everyone faces the same two problems. The first is that "all the best in your new role" is what everybody writes, and it says nothing. The second is more practical: the card cannot physically go round any more, because half the team is at home, one office is in Manchester and two people are on leave.

This covers both. Messages first, because that is what most people need, then how to organise group leaving cards for a team that is not in the same building, and how to handle the collection pot that usually comes with them.

What to write in a leaving card

The rule that fixes most of it: one specific thing beats three nice generalities.

"You will be missed, good luck!" is warm and completely interchangeable. It could be about anyone. "You are the reason the Friday release stopped being frightening" could only be about one person, and that is the message they will still have in four years.

The same principle runs through our appreciation message examples, if you want more to work from.

If you are stuck, answer one of these and write the answer down:

What is something they did that you still benefit from?
What did you learn from them without being formally taught?
What will be noticeably worse on Monday when they are gone?

If you worked with them closely

“Working with you on the Halifax migration was the most I have learnt in a year here. You never made me feel daft for asking the same question twice, and I have started doing the same with new starters. The team will feel this one.„

If you know them a bit

Do not manufacture closeness. One true observation is better than a paragraph pretending to more.

“We only overlapped on the Q3 project, but you were the one person who had actually read the brief before the kickoff, and it showed. All the best with what is next.„

If they are your manager

“Thank you for backing me on the pricing decision when it would have been easier not to. I have thought about that a lot since. Whoever you manage next is fortunate.„

If you are their manager

State what they contributed, as fact rather than assessment. This is not an appraisal.

“You took on the support backlog when nobody wanted it and turned it into the thing this team is known for. That was your doing, and it outlasts you here.„

If they are retiring

Longer horizon, and it is fine to be sentimental.

“Thirty-one years and you still knew every account by name. I do not think we will see that again. Enjoy every bit of it, you have more than earned it.„

If the leaving is not a happy one

Redundancy, a restructure, someone going because of something that happened. The card still goes round and forced cheerfulness makes it worse.

Short, true, no reference to the circumstances. A goodbye does not have to be a celebration.

“Glad I got to work with you. You made the Tuesday reviews something I looked forward to. Do keep in touch.„

Nobody has to be delighted. A short honest line is kind. Three paragraphs of performed enthusiasm is not.

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What not to write

"All the best in your future endeavours." The most written and least read sentence in British office life.
Inside jokes only three people understand. They read the card later, on their own.
Anything about why they are leaving, unless they have said it publicly themselves.
Complaints that their leaving creates work for you. This appears on cards more often than you would hope.
"Don't be a stranger." Costs nothing, says nothing.
Anything you would not want their next employer to see. Digital cards get shown around.

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Paper card or digital

The envelope worked because everyone was in one building. For a distributed team it does not.

Stick with paper if everyone is in one office, the team is under about fifteen, and somebody can realistically walk it round over two days. A physical card handed over at the leaving do is better than a link, and nothing digital replaces the object.

Go digital if people are spread across offices or working from home, if more than about fifteen people should sign, if anyone is on leave, or if you want photos on it. A digital group card also means the leaver keeps it, which a card in a drawer eventually is not.

The honest middle: some teams do both. Digital board for everyone who wants to write properly, paper card signed by whoever is in the office on the day.

How to send a group leaving card online

An online leaving card works like the paper one, minus the envelope. You create it, share it with the people who should sign, collect messages and photos, and send it to the leaver at a moment you choose.

The choice of tool comes down to two questions. How many people will sign, and are they all colleagues? If the card should include clients, people who left last year or someone's family, use a tool with an open link that anyone can sign. If it is the team and the wider office, a workplace tool saves you collecting email addresses. Either way, check the free tier's signer limit before you share the link: finding it on day three, with half the team waiting, is the most common way a group leaving card goes wrong.

We compare the options in our guides to online group cards and free group cards.

Organising one for a team that is not in one place

Start eight to ten days out. The main reason leaving cards arrive half empty is that they were started on Tuesday for a Friday.

Write the first message yourself. An empty board is off-putting and nobody wants to set the tone. Put something specific in it and everyone who follows has a standard that is not "good luck!".

Ask six people directly. Posting in a channel reaches everybody and commits nobody. Six individual messages to people who worked closely with them produce six real messages, and those carry the rest.

Give a deadline with a reason. "By Wednesday, because we are giving it to her at Thursday's team meeting" works. "Whenever" does not.

Chase once. One reminder, two days before, with the link in the message. Then leave it. A third ask produces obligation messages and they read exactly like that.

Hand it over at a real moment. A board arriving in an inbox on a Tuesday afternoon is a nice email. The same board opened on a call where people can react is what gets remembered.

The collection pot: organising a leaving gift

In most British offices the card comes with a collection. Somebody passes an envelope round, or now more often shares a link to an online collection pot, and the money goes on a present, a gift voucher or a digital gift card handed over with the card.

A few things keep it from becoming awkward:

Keep contributions anonymous. Nobody should be able to see who gave what, including the organiser if possible. An online pot that hides amounts does this better than an envelope.
Never suggest an amount. Say what the gift is for, not what people should give. Some colleagues are on very different salaries from others.
Separate the card from the money. Everyone should be able to sign the card whether they contribute or not. A card that only payers can sign is a bad card.
Close the collection when the card closes. One deadline is easier to chase than two.
Buy something specific if you can. A gift voucher for a shop they mentioned beats a generic one, the same way a specific message beats "all the best".

Some online card tools bundle the collection with the card, which saves a link. Others, including Flareeboard, do not handle money, so you run the pot separately and mention it in the first message on the card.

Doing it with Flareeboard

If your company uses Flaree, the board is already there and does not need buying separately.

Create a board for the person, choose the occasion, publish it. Everyone in the company is told it is open, through Slack if you use Slack and by email otherwise, and the person leaving is left off that notification so it stays a surprise. They cannot see the board at all until you deliver it.

Anyone who can send a Flaree can post, with up to 500 characters and a photo, a GIF or a video of up to 60 seconds. No cap on contributors or on how many messages one person adds, and people can edit their own until the board closes.

Delivering it opens a full-screen reveal rather than a notification they scroll past. Afterwards the board can be given a public link, so the leaver keeps it once their account is gone. Names on that page show as a first name and an initial, and it is not indexed by search engines.

Company-wide boards are on the free plan. Boards for one person are part of Advance, and everything is open during the 90-day trial. The pricing is public.

Conclusion

One specific thing beats three nice generalities.* Name what changed because of them.
Avoid "all the best in your future endeavours."* Everyone writes it and nobody reads it.
Difficult departures get short honest messages*, not performed cheerfulness.
Paper still wins in one office under fifteen people.* Digital wins everywhere else.
Start eight to ten days out*, seed the first message, ask six people directly, chase once.
Keep the collection pot anonymous and separate from the card, so everyone can sign.
Hand it over at a moment*, not into an inbox.

If you only need a line or two, our guide to online farewell cards has short farewell messages by situation.

If the most specific things your team says about someone are said on the way out, that is worth noticing. The same mechanism works for people who are staying, which is what ongoing recognition is for. You can try a board free.

More on Group Cards and Team Boards

Choosing a tool, writing the messages, or organising one for a team that is not all in one office:

Flaree includes group boards for the whole company on the free plan, with no cap on contributors. Start free.

Frequently Asked Questions

Avoid manufacturing closeness or resorting to generic platitudes that could apply to anyone. One specific, true observation from the time you worked together beats a paragraph pretending to more of a relationship than you had. Even a single sentence about something they did well on a shared project is enough.

Avoid phrases like "all the best in your future endeavours," inside jokes that only a few people understand, and any reference to why they are leaving unless they have made it public themselves. Do not complain that their departure creates more work for you, include anything you would not want their next employer to see, or write empty sign-offs like "don't be a stranger."

Stick with paper only if the entire team is in one office, there are fewer than fifteen people, and someone can realistically walk the card around over two days. Go digital if people work across multiple locations or from home, the group is larger than fifteen, or anyone is on leave, and remember that some teams do both.

Start eight to ten days out, write the first message yourself to set a standard that is not just "good luck," and ask six people directly rather than posting in a general channel. Give a concrete deadline with a reason, chase once with the link two days before, and then leave it alone so you avoid collecting obligation messages.

Keep the message short, honest, and free of any reference to the circumstances surrounding the departure, because forced cheerfulness makes a difficult leaving worse. A single genuine line about something you appreciated is kind; three paragraphs of performed enthusiasm is not.